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5 Tips for Cubs Dating a Cougar

Dating a cougar is a fantasy many young men have during their formative years. And let’s be honest; when we say “dating”, we usually mean “fucking”. There is something almost forbidden and taboo about a young man having wild, passionate sex with a much older woman.

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Do everything you can to put your cougar at ease

In many ways, this is a rite of passage for a young guy these days. But to ensure your cougar dating experience delivers everything you’ve ever dreamed of, there are a few things you need to know.

The average cougar has been around the block a few times. She knows what she wants, and more importantly, she knows exactly what she doesn’t want. Experience has taught her to grab every possible moment of happiness and excitement with both hands, but it has also taught her not to waste her time on young men who simply don’t deserve it.

Whether you’re trying to enchant a cougar with your charm or trying to hold onto one, these five tips should help you get the most out of your experience.

1. Don’t Treat Your Cougar as the Older Woman

Treating your woman like she’s a porcelain doll that must be protected is the easiest way to end a casual sex relationship before it gets started. It’s important to remember one of the reasons why a mature woman often becomes a cougar: a desire to reignite the flames of youth. Inside every horny 40 or 50-something cougar is an insatiable 20-year-old trying to get out. Treat your cougar like she’s exactly the same age as you, and your relationship should flourish organically.

2. Help Your Cougar to Overcome Her Insecurities

For many cougars, dressing up and acting like someone 20 years younger is all part of an elaborate show. When it’s time to strip off and get down to business, however, her insecurities might rise to the fore. If this happens, it’s important that you do everything you can to put her at ease. Your cougar may be self-conscious about the saggy bits of her body, and this might put out the flames of passion before you get down to business. Tell her she looks stunning, and make sure the compliments keep flowing in the bedroom.

3. Be Discreet

The majority of cougars you will meet will fall into one of two categories: a married woman looking for a youthful bit on the side or a professional who just doesn’t have the time to spend on a relationship. Either way, the chances are she will expect a degree of privacy and discretion. While it might be tempting, the last thing you should do is brag about your sexual conquest with your friends. Let your cougar decide when and where you meet, and what you do when you’re together. If she is comfortable and at ease when you’re spending time together, she’ll be receptive to a lot of sexual scenarios.

4. Respect the Age Difference

There’s no getting around the fact that you have far less experience in life than your cougar. The chances are she has had her heart broken a few times, and this may have made her a little wary of younger men after one thing. Spend some time getting to know your cougar, and ask her questions about her past when you think the time and situation is right. However, whatever she tells you, never judge or label her. Life takes people in many different directions; not all of them desirable. Listen to her life experiences, and share your own — but never make assumptions.

5. Make an Effort in the Bedroom

Too many young men think they don’t need to make an effort in the bedroom, as they’re under the impression that a sex-starved cougar will be grateful for anything she gets. This couldn’t be further from the truth. In fact, the opposite is true; a cougar has usually experienced the best and the worst of sex, and she’ll know exactly what she wants.

She’ll have enough experience to be able to compare you with her former sexual partners, and if you don’t live up to expectations, you may be shown the door very quickly. Find out what she likes in the bedroom, and do your best to make sure she gets is — otherwise she may just move on to the next young guy.

Having a casual relationship with a cougar is a great way to release your sexual tensions and hone your love making skills. But don’t make the mistake of taking your cougar for granted, or she may ditch you for a better model.

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