Cougars are women from their mid 30s to 50s who are single, sexually available and have a thing for younger guys. They are like turbo-charged MILFs, hunting down their younger prey and showing them how sex should be done. Even better: these days, cougars are everywhere.
But even if you know that sexy older women are near you, what's the best way to meet them and explore cougar dating? This guide will provide all the advice cougar-hunters need to have time of their lives.
First of all, let's think about the basics. What exactly is a cougar and what does she want? Well, the first part's easy. Cougars are horny women from about the age of 33 onwards. As for the second part, well, it depends. Generally, cougars are looking for guys around 8 years younger than them (or more). The closer you get in age, the more likely women are to be looking for long-term relationships. Cougars like their partners young, energetic and as horny as possible. So, if you qualify, dive straight in.
When it comes to hunting down local cougars, bars are always a good place to start, and there's a technique to master in such situations.
Always complement her outfit, and show respect for her opinions. Focus on the little touches in her outfit like accessories, the kind of observation her previous partner almost certainly never made. Then make eye contact and smile. If she does the same (and you can sense a foxy come-on smile), it's time to have fun.
At the same time, there are always words and phrases to avoid when talking to cougars. Try to avoid guessing her age (too low is obviously just flirting, anything higher is risky). Don't mention how "young she looks", which reminds her of her age. And leave serious stuff like work or politics out of it. Just be direct, friendly and make it clear that you are available.
It's also vital to know why women act like cougars (and remember that not all women do). Often, it's because their previous relationship fell apart for physical reasons. Maybe their husband was unfaithful, or maybe he couldn't get it up. Either way, cougars almost always want physical chemistry more than an emotional bond. Focus on performing where it really counts: in the bedroom, and don't waste time on romantic gifts or conversation.
Here's another thing to remember about cougars: they are all about having a good time and enjoying themselves. You can't expect them to be loyal to you or see you as their one and only. For them, you're probably just another fuck buddy (and isn't that really all you want to be?).
So don't give them trouble if they are with another guy. Let it slide. Find another cougar or relax, and welcome her back. She needs to be free, and she'll always come back to easy-going, sexually liberated guys.
So, cougars might fuck other guys. No big deal. By the same token, they also won't be impressed by guys who obviously want to take things further. They aren't looking for a younger husband to replace the one they just ditched. So put away those ideas about a shotgun wedding and don't worry about getting to know her kids. Just focus on the physical side of things and enjoy it while it lasts. She's not marriage material, and neither are you.
Here's another crazy thing about your cougar lover: she's older than you and may be worried about becoming less sexy and attractive as she ages. This often makes her desperate to squeeze every last second of pleasure out of the time when she knows she's irresistible. Her worries might seem exaggerated to you. After all, you think she's a fox, but they are real. This also means she'll be up for plenty of wild activities, from outdoor sex to swinging. So never be afraid to make a request.