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The Reasons On Why Lesbian Cougars Love Their Cubs So Much

You're probably familiar with the type. She turns up as if from nowhere, dressed sexily and full of confidence. Even if she's just broken up from a marriage and entered the lesbian scene, she still seems full of poise and charisma, and your friends adore her.

sweet cub being taken care of by a  sexy cougar
The mix of lesbian cougars and cubs is about having a free spirit and love of life.

All over the world, cubs are falling for this type of horny cougar, but where are they all coming from? Let's try to get to the truth behind these sexually hungry, charismatic individuals and puncture some of the myths attached to them.

The Age of the Cougar Has Arrived, Straight or Gay

Most importantly, lesbian cougars are part of a historical shift towards sexual freedom on early middle age. This is something that affects all women, whether they are straight, bi or lesbian. More and more marriages are falling apart and more women are choosing not to get married or start families. Instead, they are building careers, gaining sexual experience and having fun.

As a result, when they hit their late 30s and 40s, they aren't jaded by child rearing. They are still ready to party, and they aren't looking for women their own age. From the cougar's perspective, they feel young and they have the sexual urges of someone much younger, because they haven't lost their youthful vigor and energy. That's one of the things that makes them so appealing.

Online Dating Has Made it Easy to Become a Predatory Lesbian Cougar

The second part of the puzzle is the internet and, specifically, internet dating. Online hook-ups sites have sprung up that cater for every kind of niche, from adult babies to S&M queens. Naturally, there are plenty of options for lesbian cougars and their cubs.

Anyone with an interest in fucking a cougar or exploring the cougar role can sign up in an instant and make kinky contacts straight away. There's nothing stopping women with the desire to hunt down younger partners from doing so, and it's hardly a surprise that that's exactly what they are doing.

Cougars Love the Dynamics of the Relationship

Another thing driving the explosion of lesbian cougar dating are the psychological benefits of taking part in a cougar-cub relationship. For lesbian cougars, cubs are attractive for more than just physical reasons (although in most cases the lure of a young, flawless body is predominant).

Cubs are also in need of guidance, and cougars are ideally positioned to provide it. With years of experience behind them, lesbian cougars can show younger girls the ropes. They can help them grow into mature sexual beings or "pervert" them if that's what they are into. Either way, they enjoy having a younger partner they can control, influence and assist.

Modern Cougars Have Money to Burn

There's also a financial side to cougar dating. These days, lesbian cougars have thriving careers, but with no husband (and usually no kids) to spend their money on, how do they turn it into enjoyable life experiences? Exactly, they lavish it on younger women in sugar mommy-style relationships. There's never a shortage of sexy young women desperate for cash, which is one reason why cubs are drawn to cougars like moths to a flame.

People assume that lesbian MILFs have major financial resources, and they almost always dress well, eat at expensive places and drive flash cars. It's a safe bet that the hot older woman who has started visiting your local bar is loaded with cash, which is one reason why your friends can't help looking in her direction.

Youth Never Ends If You Have the Right Spirit

However, there's something more important than money, authority and access to internet dating sites: a free spirit and love of life. Lesbian cougars tend to be eternally young types of person, the kind who resist getting old by force of their personality. They aren't designed to give in and decay. They fight against maturity and responsibility.

Every fiber in their being desires pleasure, new experiences and the sensation of being loved. Deep down, we're all a little like that lesbian cougar who is attracting all of your friends, we just don't have that inner energy and drive. But many women do, and that's why they become cougars instead of settling for women their own age. They just aren't made that way.

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