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Starting a new life when having younger lovers

If I had known there was a whole scene of older women dating younger men out there, I might have even asked for a divorce sooner! Just joking... a little. My name is Kathy and I'm 47. If you're married, you know how it is.

An ageless beauty at work in the office

Fred and I got married young and the kids were off to uni and out of the house by the time we were in our early forties. That's when the marriage really started to fall apart, sad to say. We just had nothing more in common. Certainly, we'd never really had much in common when it came to sex anyway. We'd met as teenagers when a lot of passion, heated kisses and a few minutes of enthusiastic rutting was all that you needed. Over the years, my tastes had grown more sophisticated while Fred's were pretty much still at the few minutes of enthusiastic rutting stage. As the marriage fell apart, even that dwindled to nothing, By the time I was set up in my own apartment as a newly divorced woman, my sex life was down to what I could do with my own two hands, not to be too blunt about it.

Testing the waters in the dating pool

It took me a while before I felt confident enough to get out there and check out the dating possibilities - a world I had been out of for almost 25 years! I'd always tried to be well dressed and in decent shape but of course I knew I had a lot to learn. I started out by going out with some of the girls at work - a group that included people from age 23 to 54. I'm an office manager at a shipping company and the small office staff were all women and all good mates outside of work too. I was lucky to have them by my side as I began to go out to bars, lounges and clubs for drinks, dancing and maybe something else if I got lucky. I can't lie - I truly enjoyed my introduction to the world of casual sex, 21st century style. I'd hook up with blokes my age or maybe slightly older, most of them divorced like me. And, like me, they didn't want any new entanglements. That suited me fine! I was too busy discovering what it was like to finally RECEIVE oral sex! LOL

The bar scene has its limits

I'd been out of the loop for so long that honestly, I think at first any sex seemed like great sex. It wasn't long, though, before I started to notice a distinct pattern about my barroom conquests. Whether they were divorced or long term singletons, they were so self conscious about keeping their distance from me that it seldom went beyond a few encounters. I made it clear that I too was only looking for casual sex, but they seemed so gun-shy that they were always one foot out the door. I like long, slow sessions of sex that last hours - marathons are my absolute favourite! Imagine how hard that was to come by with a bunch of blokes who were so concerned about keeping it casual that they'd just do their business and be on their way. I knew I wanted more. Then, one evening I was set to go out with my office mates and there was a flu bug going around so there was only a small group of four of us - three in their twenties and then me. They wanted to go to a new club downtown where they'd heard a famous DJ was spinning that night and of course I said yes, I'd love to tag along. I'm so glad I did. After listening to great music and discovering a vivid enjoyment of the young, dancing bodies around me, what I found was that I wasn't the only one who was thinking about older women dating younger men. As I looked at the hot bodies, rounded shoulders and bubble butts of the young men around me, they were checking me out too! I couldn't believe it. Older women dating younger men - I thought it was something you only saw in films. Truth was, two of those hot young blokes actually gave me their phone numbers that night.

Finding younger dates - and sexual satisfaction - online

I didn't really want to indulge my newfound curiosity for younger men in front of co-workers for obvious reasons, but I already had another idea in mind. One of my mates had persuaded me to sign up for an adult dating website. I had a free profile but hadn't yet posted an ad. For the first time, I signed on and went through some of the other profiles and ads. Sure enough, I found a great many looking for older women dating younger men and I placed my own before I could change my mind. I woke up to find several replies in my message box and I had to pull my ad by the end of the next day because I already had too many to answer. I could browse through the sexy images they sent and had a head full of fantasies before I'd so much a met any of them. I picked three of the most promising and set up chats, which is another thing that I discovered. I love showing off in front of the camera. In the end, I decided on a full weekend - Friday, Saturday and Sunday, each with a different twenty-four year old man. Let's just say that I took Monday off work to rest, tired but happy after three days of rutting and sucking and licking three smooth, young, tireless bodies. These days, I'm down to once or twice a week with a few favourite blokes and the odd newcomer who enjoys older women dating younger men. I love my new life!

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