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The Story of how we met younger men

My name's Mary and my friend Joyce and I have been best mates since grade school when we used to sit next to each other in class, talking, laughing and driving the teachers mad. Even after everything - uni, jobs, husbands, children - we managed to stick together through the years. I'm now 47 and Joyce is 46, so that's no mean feat!

Two mature ladies out for some fun

We've been there for each other through the tough times and the good ones. About five years ago and after three children, my husband decided to leave me for his secretary. I know! A cliche of all things! And the worst part was, we both worked in the same insurance office. The only one who was there for me was Joyce. Then, two years ago, Joyce's husband decided he needed a "more fulfilling life" and he left too, leaving her with a tea shop to run all on her own. So there we were, consoling each other and griping when once day we both decided we'd had enough of hanging about moping over lost marriages and unfaithful husbands. We decided it was time we got back to having fun!

Trying our luck in the bar scene

I convinced Joyce to hire someone to help with the shop so she'd have time to go out and so we made plans to hit the town. I have to say, it was fun at first. Neither of us had been in the dating pool for many years and it felt like turning back the clock to get all dolled up and go out to the clubs to dance. And sure, there were lots of men out there in the clubs and bars. It wasn't too long before Joyce and I were dating men our age - even hooking up like teenagers to rut in the parking lot! LOL It seemed adventurous and fun at first, but then one day Joyce and I were having lunch and got to talking. She started complaining about her latest date - we'll call him Paul - who turned out to be married. That wasn't so surprising really, and it's not that Joyce wanted to get serious with anyone. It was just that he seemed to expect Joyce to be a kind of second wife already! He picked where they would go and when, and expected her to follow his lead in everything. Naturally, she was ready to drop him like a hot potato. It turns out, her experience wasn't so different than mine. We didn't want to escape marriage only to wind up with the same old, same old - except now with somebody else's husband instead of our own!

Our first experience with younger men

That night, we decided to go out of town to a new club we'd heard was opening up. It was very posh and there was a big crowd there for the opening. Before long, we found ourselves sitting at the bar chatting with all sorts of people. As the night went on, I couldn't help noticing two younger men who sat next to us at the bar. I was talking to Joyce when I saw one of them winking at me over her shoulder. He had to be twenty years younger than me! I thought I was mistaken but then he smiled at me and winked again. "Joyce," I told her, "don't look now but those two young blokes seem to want to talk!" She was as surprised as I was but sure enough, it turns out Liam and Jacob were very interested in us - and gave us our first experience as older women dating younger men. We ended up in a (large!) hotel room together having fantastic sex with those young, nubile bodies all night long. Joyce and I couldn't believe our luck, but according to Liam and Jacob, there was a whole scene of younger men out there who loved older women like us. They gave us great sex without the head trips and control issues - what could be better? But where could we find them??

Finding our groove as older women dating younger men

My youngest was still in uni and Joyce had two who were still in school, so trolling the bars for younger men in our home town just wasn't on. How could I risk running into one of my daughter's uni friends and embarrassing her? But Joyce has always been a great one for finding things online and sure enough, she found an adult dating website where we could post profiles for free. It was discrete and there seemed to be a whole community out there of people looking for sexy fun, including many younger men whose profiles said they fancied older women. We decided to post our first ad together to see what happened. Within a day or two, we had a reply from Jonathan and Andy, two hot blokes in their twenties. We met them first for a drink at a seaside cafe and within minutes, we were making out at the table. I fancied Andy, a blonde surfer type, while Joyce liked Jonathan's dark curly hair. We'd planned for it, so Joyce and I had adjacent rooms at a nearby motel and that's where we ended up before too long. I couldn't believe my luck! I loved Andy's smooth skin and toned body and he loved my experience in bed - he even told me how beautiful I was. After an afternoon and evening of energetic rutting, the boys left and Joyce and I compared notes on our adventures as older women dating younger men. Thank god things are different than when we were young and it was taboo. Now, older women dating younger men happens all the time - lucky for all of us!

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