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The thrill of having younger Lovers

My name is Samantha G. Manas, a 39-year old veterinarian. Ever since my divorce, I have always felt the urge to date younger men. The thought of having sex with twenty-something hunks produces a cocktail of pleasurable hormones.

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Fortunately, many young men say I am a yummy mummy, so I never struggle to find a tantalising catch when I need some cub attention. Although I have not completely lost interest in mature men, I enjoy the sense of adventure, flexibility and the forbidden fruit tag that comes with these type of affairs. Younger men are more spontaneous, unpredictable and downright insane at most. I tend to go for the muscular, very handsome toyboys with a bad boy tag because they make love like they are possessed. I am not one for half measures, I want things done properly in and out of bed. I am hot bloodied, vivacious and willing to be tamed when the timing and terms are right. I frequent nightclubs in search of a fresh catch that can take me to paradise and back. The most alluring aspect about these encounters is that I'm usually in charge - I dictate the terms only to lose some of my power in bed. Younger males are often in search of someone more confident, grounded and mature when they go older women dating younger men like me. I represent something fresh, forbidden and in some cases, they enjoy being led. Men in their early and late 20s aren't as jaded as their seniors. They are simply driven by strong sexual desires as opposed to constrained by obligations. Sometimes, being around younger men inspires me because they are full of ambition and energy.

Life in the fast lane

Unlike older men, younger males are like puppies they have a strong willingness to learn new tricks in the bedroom and beyond. I find it refreshing that the majority of these cubs appreciate my experience and don't feel intimidated by my accomplishments. We share the good times without any restrictions or conditions - just pure fun of older women dating younger men. My first encounter with a younger male really opened my eyes to the exciting possibilities that come with pushing the boundaries. The lucky bloke that broke my cougar virginity was Daniel, a fine 22-year old who played rugby for a local club. We met through a cougar dating site that I joined following a dare by my friends. It was an affair that transformed my social life in the most unimaginable ways. It happened at a time when I needed something to rejuvenate me after a long, bitter divorce wrangle. Daniel helped me get my groove back with a series of kinky encounters in unusual places. Our first sexual romp happened in a car park at a local restaurant, we lit up the night in the back seat of my car. If it were a busy night at the restaurant, I'm sure we will have been caught red-handed. My beautiful SUV gyrated to Daniel's enthralling deep and shallow thrusts. I completely forgot we were in a public space and screamed my guts out in appreciation of the exceptional work of my newly found cub. Ever since that day, I still can't forget the semen, his hard member and exquisite smell of cologne. He handled me like I was one of his opponents in a rugby match. I salivated at the roughness - I wanted hardcore, merciless sex and that's what I got.

Let the good times roll

When I look back at the calibre of younger men that rocked my world over the years, I'm overcome with acute nostalgia. The dashing good looks, disarming smiles, immature but intriguing personalities and awesome physiques. They helped me forget about the stress brought about by my ex-husband. I became a new woman with a renewed zest for exploring exciting adventures (older women dating younger men). One year after Daniel and I broke up, I met 21-year old Morgan, a private in the army - he was tall, dark and handsome. Together, we embarked on regular outdoor sex - in the parks, forests and on secluded beach spots. For a while, I picked the smoking habit because he loved sharing his cigarettes. After sex we would smoke just to cool down and reflect on our encounters. He was my first boyfriend who liked smoking. With him I had broken one of my rules - to never go out with smokers. Morgan had a fantastic sense of humour, I swear he could charm the pants off anyone. Our relationship was fast-paced and a happy one, there was never a dull moment. He found me more interesting, financially stable, emotionally mature, sexually adept and experimental when compared to girls his age. On one of our escapades at the harbour, we hired a small but luxurious boat to spend the night. We kick-started the evening by going club-hopping before retiring to our romantic boathouse. It had all the basic amenities needed to enjoy a romantic adventure for two. We played slow music to set the mood as the gentle wind and waves calmly rocked the boat. It was a refreshing setting that aroused my desire a hundred fold - sex on a boat was something new for both of us. What made it more special for me was that I was in the company of a date over 10 years my junior.

Living life to the full

Older women dating younger men take advantage of highly satisfying sexual encounters, freedom and an unmissable sense of youthful adventure. Dating scores of under-25s has made me feel very attractive and content with my age. However, my friends have always wondered whether I don't feel insecure in such relationships. Fortunately, I approach these encounters with an ultra-casual attitude. Some of the young boyfriends were in serious relationships with girls their age when I dated them. These are some of the advantages of relationships with no strings attached. Although I'm usually deliriously happy at hooking up younger men, I never lose control when hitting the bars or just getting drunk. My dates cannot see me hopelessly sloshed and behaving like there is no tomorrow or like I'm still a teenager. I also make an effort to avoid offloading my baggage on my beloved cubs - whining about my past disappointments can only push them away. They want fun and that's all they get. Older women dating younger men need to lead by example by practicing safe sex.

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